Traditionally, women and girls are served last in family meals. Bento sees this as a potential to cause conflict among family members and chooses not to apply it at home.
Aside from this, Bento shares that his messages on respectful relationships have not only inspired change in his household but are also reaching the ears of his community. “When we support the habit of using slurs and communicating disrespectfully at home, it becomes normal to our children, and they will do the same when interacting with others. In the end, what this will continue to contribute to is violence.”
“The community here is ingrained with traditional norms that often perpetuate gender-based violence. Although it takes time to undo this, it is possible to combat it when we are aware of the prevention measures. I am delighted to have participated in the training,” Bento said with content.
Timor-Leste is one of the countries that benefits from the EU-UN Spotlight Initiative. It works in partnership with government, civil society, UN agencies and other partners in the eradication of violence against women and girls.
